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Plus, femme girls don’t want to be with a man, or they would be. Amazingly, many people don’t understand a butch – femme relationship at all and in some cases, they are convinced that the butch girl is a man anyway, despite what they are told.
However, playing with people’s perceptions, expectations and assumptions are all part of the territory when it comes to butch-femme relationships.
Butches are used to being treated like second class versions of men.
They are sneered at by men, gawked at by straight women who clutch their purses when they walk by in a public restroom.
They have a sensitive side that men don’t usually have unless they are gay. We learn not to notice the way people look at us because if we did, our hearts would be perpetually broken.
Unfortunately this means that sometimes we don’t notice the stares of loving adoration.
You don’t think she’s a guy (though many butch women get mistaken for being guys!
There is nothing better than making a bold statement and when people look and question ‘is it a guy and a girl’ or ‘is that two girls?
’ it gives the straights something to think about and that is a deffo positive.
Despite people thinking that a butch/femme couple are simply copying hetro conventions of a guy/girl partnership, nothing is further from the truth.
Butch women don’t want to be men, they just like the more masculine image.